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Finding a Group of People Who Get It

Where families affected by incarceration find peer support, online and locally.

Who it's for
Outside Caregiver, Youth / Young Adult, Whole Family
Child / youth age
All ages
Geography
Local
Action type
Find Help
Reading time
About 4 min
Last verified
August 2026

What this is

Guidance on locating peer support — kinship groups, faith communities, family-advocacy organizations, and school parent networks — and how to evaluate whether a group is a fit.

Why it matters

Isolation is the most consistent thing families report. A group of people who do not need the situation explained changes the weight of it.

What you should know

  • Start with kinship-care and family-advocacy organizations in your state.
  • Online groups are useful when transportation or schedule makes in-person impossible.
  • A good group protects privacy and does not pressure disclosure.
  • Leave a group that traffics in judgment; it is not the only one.
  • Some groups are for caregivers, others for youth — a young person may need their own.
  • Two or three visits is a fairer test than one.

Talk about it

Ask one other caregiver how they get through the hardest part of the week.

Your next step

Identify one group and attend or join once this month.

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