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Kinship Caregiving: You Are Not the Only One

National information for grandparents and relatives raising children, and where the state-specific supports live.

Who it's for
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Child / youth age
All ages
Geography
State
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Reading time
About 5 min
Last verified
August 2026

What this is

An orientation to kinship care — relatives raising children — and where to find the state-specific programs, benefits, and legal information that apply. The linked federal agency oversees the child-welfare and family-support programs that most kinship supports run through.

Why it matters

Relatives who step in often do so informally and never learn that supports exist for their situation. The rules differ substantially by state.

What you should know

  • Kinship caregivers may be eligible for supports whether or not the arrangement is formal.
  • Your state child-welfare agency can summarize benefits, school-enrollment rules, and legal options for relatives.
  • Some programs are tied to the child rather than the caregiver's income.
  • Support groups for kinship caregivers exist in most states, in person and online.
  • Ask what changes if the arrangement becomes formal — it affects both support and authority.
  • Nothing here is legal advice; state law governs your situation.

Talk about it

Say one thing you need to another adult in your circle this week.

Your next step

Call or search your state child-welfare agency for kinship supports and note one program to ask about.

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