- Who it's for
- Outside Caregiver, Inside Parent
- Child / youth age
- All ages
- Geography
- State
- Action type
- Learn
- Reading time
- About 6 min
- Last verified
- August 2026
What this is
A plain-language explanation of the arrangements that determine who may make decisions for a child, written for general understanding rather than as legal advice.
Why it matters
Caregivers are often told to 'get guardianship' without being told what it changes, costs, or requires. Understanding the categories makes the conversation with a legal professional far more productive.
What you should know
- Custody generally refers to legal decision-making and physical care, often decided in family court.
- Guardianship generally gives a non-parent authority to make decisions for a child; procedures and names vary by state.
- A power of attorney is usually narrower and temporary, and can often be revoked by the parent.
- Some states have specific, simpler forms for relatives caring for a child.
- School enrollment and medical consent rules do not always require full guardianship — ask what the specific institution requires.
- This is general information only; state law governs and an attorney or legal-aid organization should advise on your circumstances.
Talk about it
Agree as adults on the one question you will bring to a legal-aid intake call.
Your next step
Write down which decisions you are currently unable to make, and take that list to legal aid.
The information provided through The #FKLM Family Blueprint is for general educational purposes and is not legal advice. Laws and policies differ by jurisdiction and may change. Families needing advice about their individual circumstances should consult an appropriately qualified attorney or legal-services organization.
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