Finding a Mentor Who Sticks

What this is

Guidance on identifying and maintaining a mentoring relationship for a young person.

One consistent adult outside the household is repeatedly associated with better outcomes for young people.

Mentors are often already nearby: coaches, program staff, employers, faith leaders, and teachers.
Structured programs screen and train mentors, which adds safety.
Short, regular contact beats long, rare contact.
It is fine to end a mentoring match that is not working.

Name one adult the young person already trusts and one way to see them monthly.

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